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The joys of reading

July 8th, 2010

I’ve always loved to read, and it makes me so happy that my son also loves to read. It’s exciting to see him pick up books that I read when I was a kid (the E. B. White titles, the Encyclopedia Brown series) and to see him discover his own interests along the way.

My son has been on a mythology kick, reading up on his Greek gods and asking me questions about what he’s learning. He’s still young enough that he hasn’t realize I don’t have all the answers (which is just fine with me). I ran across the book Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief and knew a tiny bit about it. Turned it over and read the back cover – Greek gods! Adventure! Surely, he would love this.

“Spencer, I found a book for you,” I said.

“I don’t want to read that book.”

“Read the back, I think you’ll like it.”

He holds book and scans the back. “It doesn’t look good.”

“This is right up your alley! All about a regular kid who meets up with the ancient Greeks!”

“It looks dumb.”

“If you don’t like it I’ll buy you five books that you do like. But you have to read it.”

He looks at me, trying to find the trap. “Okay.”

So we took the book home and it sat for a few weeks. I reminded him that he needed to read the book as promised and he reluctantly picked it up, reading a page at a time and expressing his distaste for it. Then came the day when I walked past his room well past bedtime and his light was on. I opened the door and he was reading his Percy Jackson book. He looked up with a sheepish smile and told me how much he loved the book.

After he finished it, he walked up to me with purpose and handed me the book.

“Mom. You HAVE to read this book. You will love it.”

So, while it’s not my normal type of read, I did read it. And it was really good. Definitely written for a younger audience, but it thrilled and captivated me nonetheless.

He’s now on to book two and I’m impatiently waiting for him to finish it so I can get my fix.

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Side dish with author Sarah Pekkanen

July 1st, 2010

How NOT to take an author photo by Sarah Pekkanen
 
When it came time to take a photo for the jacket of my debut novel, The Opposite of Me, I figured I should do it right. Instead of having my husband snap a headshot with our cheap little camera, I hired a professional photographer. I asked her to come by one afternoon during a narrow sliver of time when I’d organized a baby-sitter for my baby and a Wii extravaganza for my older kids. I was showered (a minor triumph), mascara’d, and though I hadn’t managed to squeeze in a haircut or a trip to buy new Spanx, all things considered, I was feeling pretty triumphant about my grooming.
So there we were, me and the photographer, in my backyard, ready to take the picture that would proclaim to readers: See how friendly (but not too friendly, certainly not in a stalkerish way!) and smart (not too smart, though! No threats to you Mensa members here!) this author is? Isn’t her novel just leaping into your hands and compelling you to start reading it?
The problem was, it was hot outside. Brutally hot. And I was wearing a sweater (even I knew better than to trot out my usual summer uniform of slightly stained Old Navy t-shirts).
“Perch on this chair,” Hilary the photographer suggested.
I obligingly perched, smiled, and sweated while the camera clicked. After a few minutes, my thigh muscles complained about perching on the edge of a chair and suggested we all go inside for a little restorative chocolate treat.
“You don’t look comfortable,” she said. “Maybe a different outfit?”
I raced inside, changed, came back outside, and posed again.
“Hmm…” Hilary said. “I’m not sure that shirt is the right color for you.”
Since I know and trust Hilary – she shoots my photo for a magazine column I write – I dashed upstairs again to change. I tore through my closet, which was stuffed with shorts and t-shirts, maternity wear, and a few very outdated business suits. Where were all my clothes? My cute, trendy, flattering clothes? Did I really dress like this? The horror!
“Mom,” one of my kids whined, “can we have popcorn?”
“I’m having a photo shoot,” I said importantly. “You know, for my book.” The kid looked at me blankly.
“The Opposite of Me?” I said. “At bookstores everywhere? Didn’t Mommy teach you to say that whenever possible?”
“He bit me!” came an outraged wail.
“Stop fighting and I’ll take you to the pool in ten minutes,” I lied to my children, whose sense of time is seriously warped from scenarios just like this one.
“I’ve got to go,” the babysitter said apologetically. “I have another job to get to.”
“Let’s put the baby on a blanket outside,” I said desperately. “He can watch the photo shoot.”
“Did you powder your nose? You really should,” the photographer asked, clearly feeling this was no time for subtlety.
I powdered, brushed my hair, threw back my shoulders, and posed again.
“THARM alert!” The photographer shouted.
(A “Tharm” happens when you position your arm in such a way that it appears to be bigger than a typical arm — more like a thigh. Like the Ebola virus and men with bushy toupees, it is to be avoided at all costs).
I shifted, sweated, and posed. The baby rolled off the blanket into the grass. The older kids made popcorn themselves and doused it with a pound of butter. Was the baby rolling onto a bee? Why were the older kids being so quiet inside? And why didn’t I have cuter clothes? Wasn’t it bad enough that I drove a minivan?
“Smile!”
It was absolutely exhausting. And you know what? The tension showed in my face. I didn’t use the photos from that shoot, after all. Instead, I found an old shot Hilary had taken of me for my magazine column. I wasn’t wearing much makeup, and I wasn’t posing. I’d just moved in close to my sweet black Lab, Bella, to give her a cuddle, and I think my happiness of being near my dog showed. 

That’s the photo on the back cover of my book. 

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Thanks, Sarah. Babes, I read OPPOSITE last month and you’re in for a treat with this read. Grab a bottle of Middle Sister we wrote about yesterday and settle in to read this tale of fraternal twins and finding your grown up self.
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THRILLER THURSDAY

July 1st, 2010

THE HORROR OF READING IN AMERICA

 It is a staggering and tragic reality but, illiteracy is alive and well and living right here in America. This is, to me, scarier than ANY horror book I could ever recommend to you. I have decided for my Thriller Thursday post to toss out some well researched statistics in the hopes of scaring the pants off of you as readers and parents. PLEASE, BE ALARMED…

85 percent of all juveniles who interface with the juvenile court system are functionally illiterate.

Illiteracy and crime are closely related. The Department of Justice states, “The link between academic failure and delinquency, violence, and crime is welded to reading failure.” Over 70% of inmates in America’s prisons cannot read above a fourth grade level.

Penal institution records show that inmates have a 16% chance of returning to prison if they receive literacy help, as opposed to 70% who receive no help.

A long-awaited federal study finds that an estimated 32 million adults in the USA — about one in seven — are saddled with such low literacy skills that it would be tough for them to read anything more challenging than a children’s picture book or to understand a medication’s side effects listed on a pill bottle.

And this one was more disturbing than them all…According to UNICEF, “Nearly a billion people will enter the 21st century unable to read a book or sign their names and two thirds of them are women.”

Did you know that some states even gauge the amount of bed space they will need for their prisons based on the literacy levels of their 4th graders?  Are you horrified? Good. You should be. Now, I want to give you a few more statistics to lighten the mood just a bit.

There are 19 listed chapters of  Book End Babes book clubs on this site.

There are 127+ members of those book clubs listed who read in upwards of 4+ books per month. If we do the math, on average, Book End Babes read approximately 508 books per year.

 We all can make an impact not only in our lives but in the lives of people we are close to and people in our community. It started with Malena and Book End Babes but has potential to be so much more. It could be a reading revolution. All we have to do is continue to read with and to our children and introduce others to the joy of reading as well. We can volunteer for reading programs in our cities or do something as simple as reading to children at your local public library, schools or our children at home. We have the power to unleash a plaque of epic proportions on the U.S. and even the world, it all starts with a book. We CAN change the world…one book, one child, one adult at a time.

CAMPFIRE BEACH READS

My Campfire Beach read for this week is Craig Robertson’s  RANDOM This is a delicious thriller set in Scotland and one I gave a 5-spider rating to on the WebbWeaver review site. Enjoy!

“Sister” Wines

June 30th, 2010

by Malena Lott

Last week, Bookette Dani talked about a Sisterhood genre of books and movies and how important some type of sisterhood activities are in real life, including, ahem, BOOK CLUBS, so this week one of our book end babes, Bonnie, who owns a wine shop in Oklahoma, offered up this fun brand, Middle Sister, with the tagline, “there’s a bit of a middle sister in all of us”. LOVE IT!

Check out “the girls” here.

Which girl are you? (and will you be truthful?) Featured wine: Goodie two-shoes.

Side Dish & Contest with author Christine Lemmon

June 29th, 2010

LONG STORY SHORT
By Christine Lemmon

How Long Does it Take?

“To an ordinary person, washing a pan is simple. But for a mother, who is also like a ringmaster in a three-ring circus, doing dishes is more hair-raisingly difficult than swallowing fire.”—an excerpt from the book Sand in My Eyes

I’m often asked how long it takes for me to write a novel. If I were living a life of solitary confinement—in a convent or prison cell—I might crank one out in a few months. The reality is that I live in a noisy little house on stilts with three children, a husband, too, and the truth is, I can hardly wash a sink of dishes without getting interrupted ten times. Sometimes I go into the kitchen spinning like a top, dizzy from their demands and forgetting why I went in there in the first place.

When I got the inspiration for Sand in My Eyes, ideas came fast and furious and I could see the characters, plot and story unfolding as a panorama in my mind. It would be a silly little story about a mother so overwhelmed that hardly was she seeing the beauty around her. I scribbled it all down in crayon on a coloring book, and then told my husband the good news—that all I need is two hours every single morning before the sun and kids rise and I could have this story written in two weeks!

Also at this time my sister was training for the Chicago Marathon and I thought as she wakes early to run, I will wake early to write and by the time she runs the marathon, I will have written my novel. Well, she ran the marathon. And she ran it again the next year, and the next. And guess what? I was still writing my novel.

Here’s what happened. Our landlords needed us out—writing postponed—they wanted to sell the house we had been renting, the one on Sanibel that inspired me immensely. Settled at last in a new rental, I set my alarm for five in the morning only to discover my laptop had died. It took me three months to afford a new one. Here we go again, I set my alarm to start writing this story and my son decides to wake along with me. This new routine (me on a coffee high hoping to write while watching The Wiggles instead) lasted for days until I decided to write in our pantry (also our laundry room) where my son couldn’t find me. From my new hideout I could hear my husband telling him, “Mommy went to work. She’ll be back when the sun comes up.”

The writing in the pantry was going fine until one morning I found myself tiptoeing to the bathroom to vomit—pregnant with our third. I wish I could say it was glamorous, but I wrote big chunks of Sand in My Eyes from the bathroom floor with the fan on to tune out the ‘beautiful chaos’ that was my family on the other side of the door. I didn’t like writing in the bathroom but if I left and headed for the pantry, the boys would intercept me and my writing session would end.

I also experienced clusters of intense three-day headaches during the writing of this book. And my mom was diagnosed with cancer. Fear woke me in the middle of every night and had me twisting and turning through the fiery forest filled with worry. A writer needs sleep, and so does a mother. I considered giving up my story about the overwhelmed woman no longer seeing the beauty to life. But faith kept me going. I had to believe my inspiration was real. I had a choice. I could either let life get in the way of my writing or I could allow life to enhance my writing. I chose the latter and created characters in my story to help comfort me through. At times, while writing it, I felt as if the older me was talking to the younger me, telling it’s all just a phase, and one day you’ll wake and your house will be quiet and clean but your children grown so you might as well now—in the midst of the chaos—feel the beauty all around you.

So how long does it take to write a novel? More than two weeks is all I’ll say!

“Everything in life takes a certain amount of work. If you think getting what you want in life is easy, then you may as well walk over to your neighbor’s yard and steal one of her flowers when she isn’t looking, because life isn’t easy, nor is growing a garden, but once you start recognizing the pests and learning how to control the weeds, and all the other basics there are to learn, then the effort you put into your gardening becomes more pleasurable.”—Sand in My Eyes

For more on Christine Lemmon and her books, visit: www.christinelemmon.com or find her on Facebook and Twitter.

Book babes: BUY THE BOOK HERE.

CONTEST!!!
7 days ’til Sand in my Eyes: Great Beach Bag Giveaway by Christine Lemmon

Between today and July 1 when Sand in my Eyes releases, I am giving away some of the best beach books of summer!

Pre-order Christine Lemmon’s new book, Sand in my Eyes, from Amazon now, email your receipt to jclemmon@gmail.com with subject line Beach Bag Giveaway, and you’ll be entered to win a beach bag full of 7 fabulous new summer beach reads including Seven Year Switch by Claire Cook, The Island by Elin Hilderbrand, Fly Away Home by Jennifer Weiner, The One That I Want by Allison Winn Scotch, The Opposite of Me by Sarah Pekkanen, The Nobodies Album by Carolyn Parkhurst and Thin Rich Pretty by Beth Harbison.

Added bonus: I’m throwing in a sweet pair of women’s Oakley sunglasses and a $50 Amazon gift card for even more reading fun.

Meet Savannah Martin and her Author

June 28th, 2010

A Cutthroat Business by Bente Gallagher Okay, so I’ll admit, I’m a little partial to this auther, Bente (pronounced Ben-tah) Gallagher, also affectionately known as Jennie Bentley (Berkley Prime Crime, DIY author). I’m partial because she’s my writing critique partner. She’s Norwegian and living in the South, and I’m Californian, living in Norwegian country better known as the Upper Midwest.

Okay, so I read this book before it was ever sold, and I loved it. Just like Bente, I knew when the right publishing company read the manuscript they’d love it as much as I did.

Savannah Martin is new to the real estate business, and she’s determined to make a go of it. After divorcing her cheating husband, she’s dating the man her family thinks is perfect, but does she think he’s perfect?

After receiving a phone call about a house on the market, Savannah thinks she’s onto her big break. That is until she enters the house and stumbles upon the dead body of a rival real estate agent. To make matters worse, the “bad boy” from high school is back in town, and Rafe Collier is the guy no Southern Belle would bring home to the family. But Savannah just can’t help her attraction…

Bente has put together a smart, fast paced mystery with A Cutthroat Business. A great summer read.

Here some fun facts about Bente Gallagher:

Random fact #1: A Swedish stripper I once sat next to on an airplane to Europe offered to father my first child. Being the innocent sort, I didn’t realize what he was doing until a few days later, when I told a friend what had happened and she said, “Oh, yeah…”

Random fact #2: I’m horribly afraid of bugs. You might even call it a phobia. It’s the legs. Many are the times I’ve stood in a corner of the shower, clutching the shower curtain around my palpitating (and wet) body, shrieking myself hoarse because a cricket has made it into the bathroom. And no, I can’t bring myself to go close enough to kill them. Hence the shrieking for help. All the women in my books are afraid of bugs, too.

Random fact #3: I mix up my rights and lefts. It’s left over – no pun intended – from a stint I did as a tour guide for one of our local tour companies awhile back. I spent a couple of years standing at the front of a tour bus with my back to traffic, gesturing with my right hand, saying, “On your left…” That kind of thing can’t help but leave scars. One of these days, I’ll work it into a book.

Random fact #4: In my New York acting days, I had a buddy who was a regular on the Cosby Show. He invited me to visit the rehearsals and meet the cast, and I got to spend an afternoon speaking Norwegian with Earle Hyman, who played Russell Huxtable, Bill Cosby’s dad, on the show. He owns a vacation home on the western coast of Norway, and he has been performing in Norwegian – as well as Swedish and Danish – theatre longer than I’ve been alive. In Norwegian, Swedish and Danish, no less! (I also met the rest of them, of course, but Earle was by far the most fun.)

Random fact #5: In addition to English and Norwegian, and of course Swedish and Danish, I speak German and French. Once upon a time I was fluent in all of them; these days I remember just enough to ask for directions and order food and generally survive if dropped into the middle of Paris or Bavaria. But given that English is a second language for me, and I’ve somehow managed to dupe an agent and an editor into believing that I handle it well enough to deserve two multiple-book contracts, I don’t think I’m doing too badly.

Denke vielmals, Bente, for providing these facts. I only speak Deutsch.

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For the Love of Vampires

June 26th, 2010

Years ago, I loved vampires. I remember having a fascination with Dracula when I was about 10, and my best friend and I would spend hours at the library checking out books about Dracula and reading about “Vlad the Impaler.” In my 20s, I devoured the sexy Lestat books by Anne Rice and the scary Necroscope books by Brian Lumley. Eventually I moved on to other types of books, and my interest in the supernatural waned.

And then came Sookie Stackhouse. A friend told me about the True Blood television series and it sounded … well … completely absurd. She laughed while she tried to explain it, knowing how crazy it sounded. She told me that the show was based on a book series and she absolutely loved them. I didn’t pick them up right away, but the more I thought about it, the more enticing it sounded. After all, that’s always what I’ve loved about Stephen King books – it seems perfectly acceptable when you’re reading it, but always sounds crazy when you try to explain it to someone else.

So, one day while picking up a few things at the corner store, I happened upon the first title in the series. “What could it hurt?” I wondered.  I bought it. The next day I went back to buy the next 3 titles that were on the shelf. By week’s end, I had visited several stores to round out my collection, and I spent a lovely time in Bon Temps, learning about the world of the “supes” that Sookie knows so well.

I’ve just finished the newly-released 10th book in the series (Dead in the Family – available here) and started watching season 3 of the show (love it!). And then I’ll wait for the 11th book … assuming there will be one. I hope it doesn’t take too long.

In the meantime, there is this other series I’ve heard of, I think the heroine is called Bella …

And FTR: I’m “Team Eric” :)

The Sisterhood

June 23rd, 2010

As the oldest of five children, four of whom are girls, I know what it’s like to be surrounded by strong, passionate, complicated women. Our age difference spans eleven years and our personalities are as sharp and distinct as a new box of crayons. Not just regular ole crayons either. We’re the sassy colors with crazy names. I’m not just “red,” I’m “razzle dazzle rose.” Throw in a mother and stepmother and it’s no mystery why I’m attracted to books about the sisterhood.

The sisterhood is defined by stories revolving around a group of women, their shared experiences and how they interact. The first book I ever read that really cemented my love for this genre (yes, I’m officially calling it a genre) was Little Altars Everywhere by Rebecca Wells. From the strained relationship between mother and daughter (Siddalee and Vivi) to the Ya-Yas (whose friendship spans decades) Altars is a poignant look at the complexity of women and those we trust with our secrets.

In December our book club read The Help by Kathryn Stockett and last month we had the pleasure of reading Saving CeeCee Honeycutt by Beth Hoffman. These books resulted in two of the best discussions we’ve ever had. Don’t get me wrong, we always have a great discussion in book club because it’s a sisterhood in and of itself. When the eight of us get together we’re like those sparkly neon crayons kids use for special projects.

Stories like The Help and Saving CeeCee Honeycutt, both debut novels, show the author’s amazing ability to give each character a unique voice. Even in group scenes, you can still hear each of them distinctly. In the final chapters of Saving CeeCee Honeycutt when Aunt Tootie’s longtime cook Oletta, tenderly talks to CeeCee about her mother’s mental illness and CeeCee’s fear of inheriting it, the conversation is so powerful and written so beautifully I could swear I was sitting on the edge of the bed with them.

Stories of the sisterhood have a recurrent theme, nurture and protect. Individually the characters live their lives experiencing hurt, sadness, pain and disappointment but when they come together, there is a momentary respite. The sisterhood cannot cure disease, bring back loved ones who have died or heal emotional scars from childhood but it lifts the characters up, makes them stronger and gives them courage to continue on their personal journey.

The beauty of the sisterhood is that it’s not bound by age or other demographic. Ann Brashares wrote about traveling pant-trading tweens, and Candace Bushnell successfully turned the sisterhood in to a franchise by introducing us to five fashionable forty-somethings from Sex And The City.

Whether it’s a Book Club, Red Hat Club, Garden Club, or eating cupcakes with the ladies at a wine dive (maybe that was just me) the pull of the real life sisterhood is strong. Women are complex creatures with dramatic tendencies. We want to stand out in a crowd yet belong to a group. We strive to take the spotlight but we will gladly sing in the backup choir if it’s our friend’s turn to shine.  I say, long live the sisterhood.