Sun-Tzu for the Soul

I recently read a blog post titled, Ten Ways Being a Theatre Major Prepared Me for Success.

I discovered this list of ten via a friend of mine who posted a link to the entry on her Facebook page. Drama buds in high school, and theatre scholarship recipients in college, our lives eventually diverged down different roads. My friend is now an Assistant Professor of Theatre at a Liberal Arts college, and I am now a writer. So what I really love about the blog post is that it points out how following your passions in college prepares you to thrive, no matter where your path leads.

Before I veer us toward what makes this a bookish post, I suggest you check out the aforementioned entry penned by a guy named Tom Vander Well. (It’s nice to meet you, Tom!) It’s helpful for students trying to choose a major, and an encouraging read for graduates—and students of life—needing a positive nudge to evaluate the value of individual experience.

If you haven’t already guessed, Tom’s entry got me thinking about which books have prepared me for success. I’ve read several great titles, but there is one very special book that tops the list as a must read.

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield

From the publisher:

A succinct, engaging, and practical guide for succeeding in any creative sphere, The War of Art is nothing less than Sun-Tzu for the soul. What keeps so many of us from doing what we long to do? Why is there a naysayer within? How can we avoid the roadblocks of any creative endeavor—be it starting up a dream business venture, writing a novel, or painting a masterpiece? Bestselling novelist Steven Pressfield identifies the enemy that every one of us must face, outlines a battle plan to conquer this internal foe, then pinpoints just how to achieve the greatest success. The War of Art emphasizes the resolve needed to recognize and overcome the obstacles of ambition and then effectively shows how to reach the highest level of creative discipline. Think of it as tough love . . . for yourself. Whether an artist, writer or business person, this simple, personal, and no-nonsense book will inspire you to seize the potential of your life.

Which books have inspired you to reach your full potential?

The Madonnas of Echo Park

My thirteen-year-old is privately distraught over a possible apocalypse next year. At his age, I was terrified of the impending rapture that my zealot relatives had convinced me would happen before I graduated high school. I will be forty next month, and fortunately I no longer live in fear of end-time scenarios. But to be honest, I’m dreading the election year, because no matter what a person’s political leanings are, there are the others out there who we get sucked into believing it’s fair game to speak badly about in order to bolster our own beliefs and WIN.

The entire political process makes my gut ache.

Illegal immigration is one such topic we’ll be hearing a lot about in the coming months, so I’ve decided to immerse myself in a story about “Amexicans” (the original working title) from the perspective of someone not running for political office.

The Madonnas of Echo Park is a literary novel by Brando Skyhorse. A Pen Hemingway winner, this book also includes a reading group guide; a plus for Book End Babe chapters. (Publication date June 2010.)

We slipped into this country like thieves, onto the land that once was ours.

With these words, spoken by an illegal Mexican day laborer, The Madonnas of Echo Park takes us into the unseen world of Los Angeles, following the men and women who cook the meals, clean the homes, and struggle to lose their ethnic identity in the pursuit of the American dream.

When a dozen or so girls and mothers gather on an Echo Park street corner to act out a scene from a Madonna music video, they find themselves caught in the crossfire of a drive-by shooting. In the aftermath, Aurora Esperanza grows distant from her mother, Felicia, who as a housekeeper in the Hollywood Hills establishes a unique relationship with a detached housewife.

The Esperanzas’ shifting lives connect with those of various members of their neighborhood. A day laborer trolls the streets for work with men half his age and witnesses a murder that pits his morality against his illegal status; a religious hypocrite gets her comeuppance when she meets the Virgin Mary at a bus stop on Sunset Boulevard; a typical bus route turns violent when cultures and egos collide in the night, with devastating results; and Aurora goes on a journey through her gentrified childhood neighborhood in a quest to discover her own history and her place in the land that all Mexican Americans dream of, “the land that belongs to us again.”

Like the Academy Award–winning film CrashThe Madonnas of Echo Park follows the intersections of its characters and cultures in Los Angeles. In the footsteps of Junot Díaz and Sherman Alexie, Brando Skyhorse in his debut novel gives voice to one neighborhood in Los Angeles with an astonishing— and unforgettable—lyrical power.

Angel Town

Lilith Saintcrow is one of my favorite authors. I knew of her from her Dante Valentine series, but was late to the game due to being seriously behind on my TBR, so I never opened the door to that world. When Night Shift (Jill Kismet series, Book #1) debuted, I thumbed through the blue and white paperback about a nightside Hunter and was hooked before purchase with the anonymous quote that set the tone for the series, “The most terrible thing to face is one’s own soul.”

So I let the hunt begin.

A dark urban fantasy/horror mix, Angel Town is the sixth and final book of the series. It’s been an unyielding and emotional ride that I’m sad to see come to an end. When I began this journey with Jill, anti-heroine extraordinaire, I was unaware that it shared similarities with the Dante Valentine series, and from what I’ve gathered from goodreads, if you like one series, you’ll like the other. (I’ve purchased the Valentine omnibus for future reading.) I do believe that if you’re a fan of the television show Supernatural, you would probably enjoy Jill Kismet as well.

Lilith’s prose is lyrical, vivid, fierce, and holds nothing back. She also writes Young Adult urban fantasy under the name of Lili St. Crow. Her Strange Angels series is also wrapping up this month, so if gritty, strong heroines are your bag and if Lilith is a new-to-you author, you can read her popular (and complete) series without the painful wait that falls between publishing dates.

Highly Recommended.

Praise for the Jill Kismet series:

“Packed with nonstop action, it’s a compelling tale…Jill is a tough cookie with a surprisingly mushy center, and Saintcrow captures these seeming contradictions in her character with aplomb and believability.” — Romantic Times

The Orchard by Theresa Weir

THE ORCHARD is the story of a street-smart city girl who must adapt to a new life on an apple farm after she falls in love with Adrian Curtis, the golden boy of a prominent local family whose lives and orchards seem to be cursed. Married after only three months, young Theresa finds life with Adrian on the farm far more difficult and dangerous than she expected. Rejected by her husband’s family as an outsider, she slowly learns for herself about the isolated world of farming, pesticides, environmental destruction, and death, even as she falls more deeply in love with her husband, a man she at first hardly knew and the land that has been in his family for generations. She becomes a reluctant player in their attempt to keep the codling moth from destroying the orchard, but she and Adrian eventually come to know that their efforts will not only fail but will ultimately take an irreparable toll.

In her dark and deeply feeling memoir, Weir shares her story with candid, unflinching prose, leaving the reader grieving for the Theresa that once was and craving a sweet, clean after-the-last-page for us all. I can honestly say that The Orchard is one of the most pivotal books I’ve ever read, irrevocably changing my view of the world.

It’s Jane Eyre meets Green Acres, a stunning memoir with page-turner pace.

-MACLEANS.CA

A hypnotic tale of place, people, and of Midwestern family roots that run deep, stubbornly hidden, and equally menacing-THE ORCHARD is sublime and enchanting, like a reflecting pool, touch the surface and watch the ripples carry you away.

-Jamie Ford, NYT bestselling author of Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

The Orchard is a lovely book in all the ways that really matter, one of those rare and wonderful memoirs in which people you’ve never met become your friends. I read it in a single sitting, lost in the story, and by the time I put it down, I was amazed by Weir’s ability to evoke such genuine emotion. Read it: you’ll be glad you did.

-Nicholas Sparks

THE ORCHARD is a Book End Babe Top Pick. For our Book Club members, please note that a Reading Group Guide can be found on Oprah.com here. (Warning: May contain spoilers.) You can also visit the Theresa Weir/Anne Frasier website here for more information about the author and her nom de plume.

Blood Bound

By blood, by word, by magic…

Most can’t touch the power. But Liv Warren is special— a paranormal tracker who follows the scent of blood.

Liv makes her own rules, and the most important one is trust no one.

But when her friend’s daughter goes missing, Liv has no choice but to find the girl. Thanks to a childhood oath, Liv can’t rest until the child is home safe. But that means trusting Cam Caballero, the former lover forbidden to her.

Bound by oath and lost in desire for a man she cannot have, Liv is racing to save the child from a dark criminal underworld where secrets, lies, trauma and danger lurk around every corner…every touch…every kiss.

And more blood will be spilled before it’s over…

Blood Bound is one seriously twisted and inventive read. It’s the first in a new trilogy by urban fantasy author, Rachel Vincent, and it does not disappoint. Liv Warren is a strong and purposefuly stubborn heroine with a complicated moral compass that points to a hidden, tender heart. Morbid and dark, romantic and emotional, the reader is willingly bound until the end. Rachel Vincent is an amazing talent, crafting with a clarity that only keeper-shelf authors possess, and an author I highly recommend.